He preferred to look at his phone than talk to me.
He spoke to me like I was on the bottom of his shoe!
It hurt ?
But looking back now I can see why…
It’s because I talked to myself like I was on the bottom of my shoe…
You’re fat and ugly!
You’re boring!
You’re stupid!
When I think back to the things I used to say to myself ? I was really horrible!
No wonder others weren’t kind to me.
You see I set the tone for how others treat me.
If I don’t love and respect myself, how can I expect others to?
How can I expect them to see lovable things in me that I don’t see in myself?
I cant!
I realised that if I wanted a better relationship then I had to start by working on the relationship with myself.
Now that I love and respect myself it’s reflected back to me in my relationship.
This ones a keeper and I see now that I’m a keeper too ❤️
How’s your relationship with yourself?
