The best looking guy in the year…
I saw him across the shopping centre this morning.
It transported me back 25 odd years to the school leavers book.
I was voted best looking girl that year.
The vote all girls wanted.
I didn’t. It didn’t feel good. I didn’t feel I deserved it and the unworthiness felt yucky.
That vote did not make me feel attractive.
Just goes to show no matter what anyone else thinks unless their belief is your truth, it has no bearing at all.
Some 25 years later complete with wrinkles, laughter lines and grey hairs… I feel beautiful.
And it has nothing to do with how I look and everything to do with how I feel.
I feel like a beautiful person and that is my truth so regardless of what anyone believes about my looks I see my beauty.
It took me a while but eventually I learned that no title, job, partner, amount of money or anything else was what would make me feel worthy.
Only I have the capacity to make myself feel worthy because I always was, I just had to find my way to feeling it.
If you find yourself caught in a cycle of chasing external validation and would like to understand how to find validation and a feeling of worthiness from within I would love to coach you.
I want to help you see, feel and believe in your true worth.
I want to share with you all the ways in which you can validate yourself and build a resilience for life from a place of feeling self assured.
If you desire to be in control of how you feel and to feel bloody good about yourself, I can show you the way.